Biggest Barriers It doesn’t matter whether you call it inner peace, sanity, or contentment; it is an uplifting feeling of freedom that everyone needs. But there are many things that may be blocking your path to it.Just because someone might be dressed better, smells nicer, or might be in better shape than you are doesn’t mean they are better than you. People never live up to the expectations you set in your mind for them, which is why they will always end up disappointing. Before you start to care about someone on a deeper level, it might be best to see where they are to avoid getting hurt again.